Well, I'll tell you why - they don't! Sure, moms and #dads differ in how much #visitation they should each get, with some advocating for a perfect #5050custody scenario and others wanting something more like 60/40, or even every other weekend - but most moms aren't lamenting the fact that good dads want to be involved or stay involved. In the most aggressive and #highconflict #childcustody cases I've seen, it's less about the amount of parenting time each parent gets and more about the quality of care the #children will receive during dad's parenting time. It's hard to be a good #coparent and be unaware of the child's #teacher's name or whom to contact at the #pediatrician's office! It's hard to leave your child in the care of a dad who likely will not do the caring himself and will, instead, pass it off to your #exmotherinlaw or a new #girlfriend who will bash you instead of supporting the kids through a difficult transition. Why do we just assume moms are #controlfreaks ?