I use a question mark here for a reason, but - according to a prospective client of mine - this was what her #attorney told her and, according to her, it was the BEST advice ever. Me? I don't think so.

I don't ever want to let my own personal judgment get in the way of giving a #woman advice for her situation - and there's also a difference between advice that is #legal in nature and advice that is more personal. If you want my opinion, I'll give it to you - I'm happy to discuss. But YOU need to make the best decision YOU can make - for your own sake and the sake of your children. You're under no obligation to make the decision that I would make. Should you stay for the kids? #girlfriends, that's your decision - and yours alone.