In this video, I share how I stopped feeling behind and reset my mindset. If you're a brown girl feeling overwhelmed, this video is for you. As a Brown Girl in my 30's, I've occasionally wondered if I'm behind in life. I recently discovered new passions, and I'm allowing myself to be unafraid and quiet the outside opinions on how my life should look. I shared a recent conversation I had with my husband about why I would never want anyone else's life but my own.