There are so any sources of influence. Our perception of life is made up of so many influences.
Who is trying to influence us and why. Society and authorities are the prime influences. They are the ones trying to shape our reality. Shape it into what is the vital question. And why?
If we can see how it happens and see it happening we have some chance of individuality. Life will not produce any source of happiness or the joy of discovery and spiritual growth without shaking off the influences you have already succumbed to. Be aware enough to shield yourself from more. It is not part of a group effort. It is something you have to become aware of yourself and see through any attempts to alter your mind.
We remove our vulnerability if we consciously take charge of where our attention goes.
Surround yourself with those who see greatness within you, even when you don’t see it yourself. It will come.