When Validating Feelings Feels Like a Waste of Time
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 Published On Apr 29, 2024

Are you empathizing with an agenda? 🤔

Feel like you’re validating feelings all day long and getting nowhere? 😵‍💫 Could you possibly be empathizing with the “buts?”💥

👉🏻 “I know you’re sad, BUT you have to...”
👉🏻 “I know you don’t want to, BUT I said so...”
👉🏻 “I know you’re not ready, BUT we have to go...”

I know, I know, I know. We don’t have time to listen to feelings all day long. But rushing through connection so we can get what we want takes much, much longer in the long run. (I know because I’ve done this. Don’t judge.😬)

It doesn’t “work” to build relationships or encourage cooperation if we’re not genuinely interested in hanging out with the feelings behind the behavior. 🙌🏻

If spending 10 minutes connecting without an agenda can save you 20 minutes arguing, wouldn’t it be worth it?

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Welcome! I'm Lori, and I founded Teach Through Love because I'm passionate about helping adults resolve daily conflicts and nurture children's development by using conscious communication.

Parents, teachers, and caregivers are the most influential people in a child's life. My Conscious Parenting Courses and Communication Cards have helped thousands of parents and professionals break free of reactive patterns and unconscious beliefs about "discipline" that keep them stuck in negative cycles with kids.

I want to help adults increase cooperation and connection by communicating in ways that help kids feel heard and capable of change. We can help them reach their full potential and learn to solve conflicts and collaborate with others when we shift how we respond to their needs and feelings.

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